SexyPrime, a blog by Susan Crain Bakos

THE RED HEELS QUICKIE POSITION--A New Sex Wardrobe Basic

 Photo Credit:  "Red Heels" on Photobucket

Inspired by this photo, I created The Red Heels Kiss--and now this quickie position.

The Red Heels Quickie

 A woman with great legs wearing red stiletto pumps sits on the edge of the bed, her feet on the bare chest of a hunk in blue jeans standing before her.  What woman wouldn’t want some of that?

 The Preparations

 The red shoes are a must!  If you don’t own a pair, buy, beg, steal or borrow them.  They set the mood so effectively that, even if you’ve never had sex with your shoes on, you won’t see any other way to do it this time.

·           Put on your tiniest little skirt, preferably a denim mini (but black is good too.)  Add a big white shirt, unbuttoned, tied around your waist. 

 Tell that hunk to take off his shirt and “Come here!”  But he can only watch, not touch, until you invite him to play.

The Quickie

 

• Rest your heels on his chest and give him a good view of your naked pussy.

• Hike up your skirt and play with your clitoris as you “walk” those red heels up and down his chest.

• Continue stroking yourself—making uninhibited noises—as you “walk” over the bulge in his pants.  After you elicit a moan from him, invite him to play.

•  Wrap your legs around his waist or put them over his shoulders—whichever feels right to you—and let him take you standing up.
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Other SEX BASIC WARDROBE techniques--

The Black Lace Boy Shorts Spank & Stroke

Push-Up Bra Sex Tricks

The Tight Dress Quickie

The French Teddy Buttocks Play

The Black Silk Blouse Cleavage Game

The Flippy Skirt Quickie

THE BLACK LACE-TOPPED THIGH HIGHS INTERCOURSE TRICKS

 The Boyfriend Jeans Mutual Hand Jobs

The String-of-Pearls Seduction Kit

The Pencil Skirt Quickie

The Boyfriend Shirt Quickie

The Basic Black Dress of Blow Jobs

The "Skinny Jeans" BJ Orgasm

The Red Heels Kiss

 

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THE CUNNILINGUS QUICKER

Guys tell me that sometimes they get weary performing cunnlingus.  Their jaws ache.  Neck hurts.  Mouth begins to feel dry.  (Yes, Babes, I know:  you can tell the other side of that story, Blow Job Fatigue.)  She's really into it--but she just needs so much time to come.

 

Want to turn cunnilingus into a quickie (or at least a quicker)?

 

Alternate mouth stimulation with clever use of a little bullet vibe.  (If you have more than one lover, you need more than one bullet vibe.  It's not cool to use the same vibe on different women even if you do clean it after using.)

 

           

Here's the ultra-simple technique:

 

• Cover her clitoris with her labia lips.  (This protects the ultra-sensitive clit from vibe stimulation that might otherwise feel too intense, even painful.)

• If the vibe has two speeds, start on low and move to high if her body language indicates she wants that.

• When she's close to orgasm, turn off the vibe and put that mouth back on the job.

 

Could it be any easier than this?

The Thanksgiving Quickie, Whipped Cream Optional: She Comes Too

 

How do you have sex with the house full of relatives and the kids off school?  Or, while staying with your parents or siblings? 

Please.  Where there is a hard dick, I will find the way.

Here are The Quickie Essentials from The Orgasm Bible:

 

Sex Your Brain

You can't wait for lust to overtake you like a pirate seizing booty.  Encourage your sexual thoughts and fantasies so you'll be ready.  Put sex in your head.  (Isn't that more interesting than Aunt Patty's dinner table diatribe?)

Prepare Your Body

Rub a little lube, like my fav Liquid Silk, into your genitals.  Stash an individual packet in your pocket--right next to the Pocket Rocket or other mini power vibe.  And wear panties that can be easily pushed aside.  No pantyhose!

Redefine Sex

Skip the foreplay.  Have intercourse in a sitting or standing position and use the vibe.  Maybe intercourse isn't possible.  How about mutual oral sex in the back seat of the car, parked in the garage, while the children watch a DVD? 

It's All About The Clitoris!

Someone's hand (or vibe) needs to be on the clit at all times.

Be Edgy

Do it with your coats on in your mother's gazebo at midnight.  Or in the rest room of your favorite pub.  Or on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial or the public library.  You don't have to take your clothes off.  Improvise!

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The Quickie Threesome: You, Your Lover and SaSi

Women sometimes challenge me when I say that Quickies can work for them too.

"But it takes so long for me to get aroused."  "I can't go from zero to 100--well, not without a Hitachi Magic Wand."  "Quickies are just for men; you're lying if you say they can work for us too."

Yes, you can come in a Quickie!  (What's wrong with using the Hitachi briefly to take you from zero to 50 or 60 or 70 before you start?)  Today, however, put your Hitachi aside--and I know how difficult that can be--and let's turn this Quickie into another kind of threesome.

First. spend a few intimate moments with my new friend SaSi, the vibe with "Sensual Intelligence Technology."  Translation:  You play with it and it figures you out, programming itself to please you better next time in your response pattern to its movements with little rotating nubs. 

SaSi provides undulating clitoral stimulation--in a rhythmic fashion that feels like oral sex.

You like it hard and fast?  Slow and easy?  SaSi gets it.  You don't even have to tug it's ears to direct its head.

Bonus:  you can get a free bottle of massage oil if you purchase SaSi at Babeland now. (Break your SaSi in before using it as the warm-up act for your Quickie.)

Sex toy reviewer Ann Whidden calls SaSi "the best thing to happen to sex since tongues."  I like that line.  Who doesn't need a smarter tongue in her life?

If you want a "spontaneous" Quickie, slip into the bedroom or bathroom while s/he's putting the kids down or is minutes away in a cab--and use your SaSi to give yourself that first orgasm via cunnilingus or bring yourself to the edge, if that is your preference.

Now you are ready for your lover to drive it home--or give you that second big O.

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The Bendover Cross

Photo Credit:  "Sexy Legs" by Stacey on Photobucket

 

Yes, quickies do work for women too.

The Bendover is a classic quickie intercourse position.  She stands with feet apart.  If she's athletic, she bends forward and places her hands on the floor.  He enters from behind.  Most of us do the Bendover in a more comfortable position:  Standing but leaning forward with hands or forearms supported by a bed, table, chair or other hard surface while he enters from behind.

The Bendover Cross adaptation:  Preferably wearing stilettos because they look so hot-- assume your favorite Bendover position, but cross your ankles after he enters you.  The fit feels tighter and more exciting for him and stimulates your G spot and/or clitoris indirectly.  Flex your PC muscle in time with his thrusting to intensify the sensations. 

This tip comes from my forthcoming book THE NEW TANTRA:  Simple and Sexy.  I was on set for the photo shoot.  And the Bendover Cross looks really sexy.

Orgasm Tip:  Arouse yourself before the quickie with a few minutes of vibe play--and/or use a finger vibe (Babeland) during the quickie.

 

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