SexyPrime, a blog by Susan Crain Bakos

LEARN THE ORGASM LOOP--Special Offer, Free EBooks!

Art Credit:  "Orgasm" by Kaitlin Leigh Hoffman

 

With time slipping away, I have some regrets, for example,  petty little social crimes, errors in judgment, time wasted on shallow people, foolish pursuits-- and allowing little people, the dung beetles of humanity, into my life, even on a limitied basis.

Professionally, I regret not putting the effort into marketing The Orgasm Loop.  I've been hearing lately from many women who have discovered The Loop.  When I have time, I will put together a list of their testimonials to encourage the women who also write, asking, "Can you help me have an orgasm?  I've never had one."

Learn The Orgasm Loop and you will come.

For a limited time, I'm giving away the ebook edition of The Orgasm Loop.  Write to me and request your copy.

 

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DOING IT DRESSED--Sex Wardrobe Basics Book Give-away

 
Photo Credit:  "Sexy Lady in Black" on Photobucket

 

No, I am not sick.  Nor have I run away to meet the Sexy Beast from Diary of an Affair.  (But stay tuned for that next weekend.)  I've just been crazy busy--and I am flattered that so many of you emailed to say you miss me.  I miss you too. 

To show you how much, I'm giving away books to the writers of my favorite three responses to this question:

HOW HAVE YOU ADAPTED A SEX WARDROBE BASIC TO SUIT YOU AND YOUR PARTNER?

All the SWBs are under that category on your right.  Or click on The Black Silk Shirt Cleavage Game--and find all the links.

Winners can have their pick of any one of my Quiver books or my friend Dr. Sonia Borg's Quiver books.  Check them out on QBookshop.

 

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WRITE "DIRTY" TO US--And Win One of Our Books

 
 
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Here's a variation on "talk dirty to me."  In the spirit of the holidays, my friend and sister Quiver author Dr. Sonia Borg and I are running two contests.  The winners can choose one of her books AND one of mine.

Contest #1: Holiday Erotica (suggested by our most excellent IT Babe, Lindsey Cardarelli)

Send us your original erotic story by midnight December 22.  Any length up to 2,000 words.  Sonia, Lindsey, Kimmie and I will select a male and female winner whose stories will be published on SexyPrime.  The book package will also include some little treats like individually wrapped packets of lube and official NYC condoms and at least one vibrating surprise courtesy of Babeland.

Attach your entry to this post as a comment or send it to me via email by hitting the email button on the left hand side of the blog or using this address:  [email protected]

SexyPrime is read in almost every country on the planet--and by a lot of people in book and magazine publishing in the U.S. and the U.K.--making it a good place to showcase your creative work.

We can't wait to read your stories......

Holiday kisses from Sonia, Lindsey, Kimmie, Mary (SexyPrime's godmother)--and me.

And we also invite you to become fans of Quiver's Facebook page.  Quiver Books creates the most elegantly erotic sex books on the market.  By joining the fan page, you will be the first to know about upcoming books and promotions.

 
Photo Credit:  "Kiss Lips" on Photobucket

NEXT WEEK:  Holiday Contest #2

SEXYPRIME'S DATING/MATING/HOOKING-UP SURVEY: 7 Questions & 5 Free Books

Photo Credit:  "Red Heels" by UltraKiley on Photobucket 

 

Are women still buying dating guides like “have him at HELLO:  Confessions from 1,000 Guys About What Makes Them Fall In Love….or Never Call Back” by Rachel Greenwald (Three Rivers Press)?

As ubiquitous as spring pollen, dating guides for women land on my desk  in padded envelopes with gushing press releases tucked inside the cover flap.  No book jackets.  They are nearly all paperbacks now—and rarely written by PhDs.  Therapist/authors don’t sell anymore whether the DIY help being offered is on sex or some relationship-y topic.  Readers want to hear it from “real people.”  (Maybe they figured out that most sex therapist/authors got their PhDs from the Human Sexuality Institute in California, a worthy establishment in its own right, but not a university.)

Guys who run the gamut of ages, occupations, geographical locations and levels of obvious intelligence gave Greenwald “exit interviews” on first dates.  Bottom line:  There are not so many second dates.  Yes, women make a lot of dumb mistakes from Too Much Information on everything from exes to their dietary requirements—to being too enthusiastic (or not enthusiastic enough).  Women don’t get it that he didn’t call back because he isn’t interested (Not That Into You) but make excuses like:  his fear of intimacy and bad timing,  (Blame girlfriends who encourage that mentality.)

But men make dumb dating mistakes too!

Greenwald acknowledges this and states the obvious:  She doesn’t do exit interviews with women because men wouldn’t buy that book.  Men don’t buy relationship DIY books.  They do buy my sex books which are all about technique and not about relationships.  Another point in my favor:  I love men, I love men’s bodies, I adore the cock.

Just thinking about cocks for a second distracted me—but here is my point:

Guys and Babes, you tell me what is really happening out there.  Answer the survey questions (anonymously, of course).  I will randomly select five names—and they will receive a copy of one of my Quiver Books titles, their choice.

1. Age?  Gender?  Race?  Relationship status?
2. Do you date?  How long have you been dating?  Or do you just Hook-Up? 
   
3. Do you date or hook-up outside your relationship?  
4. What is a first-date deal breaker for you?  
   
5. Your best and/or worst date/hook-up story?
6. Sex on the first date—yes or no
7. Guys, do you call her again if you had sex on first date or hooked up with her?   Babes, do you care if you hear from this guy again or not?

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THE VULVA WEEK BOOK GIVEAWAY!

Send me your orgasm story by midnight Saturday, November the 21st. It can be hot or funny, about your first one or best one—the time you (or your partner) squirted—about multiples or faked Os. Your privacy will be respected. No email addresses published.

We at SexyPrime will draw a winner from the contributors and send that person signed copies of Thanks for Coming: One Young Woman’s Quest For An Orgasm by Mara Altman (Harper Perennial) and The Orgasm Loop by ME (Quiver Books).

 

 

And if you live in New York City, I’ll also buy you at drink at Maxie’s Grill (19^th Street between Irving and Park.)

We're Giving Away Two Copies of THE SEX BIBLE FOR WOMEN!

Babes, I promised you we would start giving away books once the blog began picking up traffic.  It has.  So you have a chance to win a book when we randomly draw two entries on July 4.  (But you can only enter once.)  Answer one of the following questions:

1.  What's the best orgasm you ever had?
Details!  I want details.  Were you alone or with a man or a woman (or more than one partner?)  Was it one big orgasm or multiples?  Exactly how did it feel?  What made it so memorable?

2.  What is your biggest sex secret?
We all have them.  The fantasy we are ashamed to share.   The real number of partners we've had.  Who we lust after in our hearts.  What is yours?

You can write as long or as short as you like.  Your privacy will be protected.  I don't have to give out real names.  That can be between you and me on email.  But do post your entries to the blog.

Pick a question and maybe you will get a free book!  I can't wait to read your entries.