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"Submissive Dreams" is eliciting a lot of mail. So many women have had disappointing--sometimes scary--experiences with "dominant men" met online.
"Either they have a heavy hand when you are looking for a more erotic, playful experience--or they really specialize in dominance-through-humiliation, like the Mr. Critical guys you wrote about. "
Once again, I encourage you to share your submissive dreams with your lover or sex buddy before playing submissive to strangers. One way of introducing the subject: Read out loud to him from DS erotica or watch a film together in bed. They also make excellent masturbation aides.
Films:
You can find suggested erotic viewing in Daily Sex Bible.
Two classics you don't want to miss:
- "Belle du Jour," the Luis Buneul film from 1967 starring a young Catherine Denueve.
- "Last Tango in Paris", directed by Bernardo Bertolucci, starring Marlon Brando before he was fat and Maria Schneider.
Classic BDSM erotica:
- "Tropic of Cancer" & "Tropic of Capricorn" by Henry Miller
- "Venus in Furs" by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch
- "Justine" & "Juliet" by Marquis de Sade
- "The Story of O" by Pauline Reage
Erotic Novels of the Modern Era:
- "Portnoy's Complaint" by Phillip Roth
- "Gordon" by Edith Templeton, a recently rediscovered writer
- Books published by Cleis Press. Whatever your sexual persuasion, lifestyle or fantasy, Cleis has books for you. I love this little press.
The original dominant male heroes--those mad, bad and dangerous characters--were Heathcliff in "Wuthering Heights," Edward Dantes in "The Count of Monte Cristo" and, of course, Lord Byron. Now we have vampires in books like the "Twilight" series. Though I don't find vampires sexy, I would rather read about them than read the emails of creeps posing as doms on the internet. For the most part, they represent the lowest common denominator.
You deserve better.
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