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Sexy Prime is a mathematical term for a set of prime numbers separated by six--for example 5 and 11, 11 and 17 and so forth. ("Sex", of course, is the Latin word for six.)
I am good at math and research-oriented so the term appeals. It says to me: Numbers are sexy. And I believe that is true for women too. Whatever your "number", you can be in your Sexy Prime.
Some women let their sex lives go the way they do their waistlines and hair color. They develop the Prude ‘Tude, my name for what happens to once vibrant and sexy women at middle-age when they decide it’s time to set back and be judgmental of other women having a better time than they are.
Some young women throw their sex lives (at least temporarily) away by having sex in drunken hook-ups where they don’t reach orgasm. They may brag about how much sex they’re having and how hot they think they are, but, Babes, if you aren’t having orgasms, you’re just playing STD roulette with strangers---nothing sophisticated and smart about that.
Sexy Prime, the mathematical term also says to me: Smart women are sexy.
This is the place for smart, savvy, sexy sophisticated women, no matter their age, sexual persuasion and sex styles. It is not the place for the girl who makes fun of Mom—or Grammy!—being sexual; and it not the place for the Mom or Grammy who puts down the young for being young. If you can reach across stereotypes and barriers and think across the sexual lines, and realize that lesbians and bi-sexuals and straight women; swingers and the faithful; BDSM and the vanilla have lessons to share with one another, welcome.
If not, don’t stick around and write us hate mail.
Open-minded men who love women are welcome here too. Some of this blog’s best friends are male readers.
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Love the blog title - sexy and sophiscated.
Posted by: plusstyle | August 03, 2009 at 04:39 AM
I am 25, and my “fiance” has admitted to having a porn addiction, has said he needed it to be more hardcore as he got older and I have found videos of guys shoving brooms and nerf footballs into women’s vaginas. I think it can be a bigger problem than a lot of women realize. It is like a secret world that he separates from me, and he doesn’t seem sexually attracted to me in the slightest, or anyone for that matter. He prefers porn and anal (I didn’t know this until 2 years into our relationship). I told him from the very beginning I would never do that and he tried “the slip” once (not a slip so much as trying to ram it in) and I punched him in the face. I know that sounds harsh and I have never hit anyone before but I felt so violated, disrespected, and to be honest, I felt like he raped me. It was very painful and I am glad I reacted the way I did. Is it a violation? Do all men expect a woman to now-and-then accept anal penetration? The biggest question is, if that is what he really wants in bed, do I suck it up and take it to keep us together or move on and let our 4 year relationship kick the bucket?
Posted by: Elizabeth | August 21, 2009 at 01:04 PM
My opinion of your situation, Elizabeth, is that you have every right to feel violated and angry; you said no, and your partner did not respect your decision. I don't think I would be able to handle being treated as second rate to porn participants, or expected to do anything that I am not comfortable with in a relationship.
Posted by: Christine | March 03, 2011 at 09:51 AM