In January 2010, I ran the results of SexyPrime’s Taboo Sex Survey—the most popular sex survey I’ve done. New readers are still finding the survey and sending in their responses. I’m putting together an update for January 2012. (If I’m not able to complete it, TinaMarie Bernard will finish for me, post here and on her blog, Modern Love Musings.) Tinamarie and I have very different voices and styles, but we share a reverance for sexuality and respect for our readers' privacy.
If you haven’t filled out the survey—and even if you have, but want to report on new practices, a shift in attitude—forget the Christmas card list and do it!
Maybe there should be a new category for Acting Out Porn Fantasies. Some of the stories about attempts at DP, double penetration, are hilarious. (Wait, was that supposed to be a hot game?)
And maybe another category for Double Lives, the cowed husband using a fake name on Facebook and other sites to engage women in heated fantasies and explicit picture/video exchanges. (Yes, I wrote about that firsthand. See Diary of an Affair.)
Over a decade ago, when I wrote KINK: The Hidden Sex Lives of Americans, I noted that kinky practices were out of the closet and into the mainstream. That is even more true now. Tell me your dirty little secrets, readers. You know I love to hear them.
For inspiration, read the individual stories from the Taboo Sex Survey--
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