SexyPrime, a blog by Susan Crain Bakos

The Quickie Threesome: You, Your Lover and SaSi

Women sometimes challenge me when I say that Quickies can work for them too.

"But it takes so long for me to get aroused."  "I can't go from zero to 100--well, not without a Hitachi Magic Wand."  "Quickies are just for men; you're lying if you say they can work for us too."

Yes, you can come in a Quickie!  (What's wrong with using the Hitachi briefly to take you from zero to 50 or 60 or 70 before you start?)  Today, however, put your Hitachi aside--and I know how difficult that can be--and let's turn this Quickie into another kind of threesome.

First. spend a few intimate moments with my new friend SaSi, the vibe with "Sensual Intelligence Technology."  Translation:  You play with it and it figures you out, programming itself to please you better next time in your response pattern to its movements with little rotating nubs. 

SaSi provides undulating clitoral stimulation--in a rhythmic fashion that feels like oral sex.

You like it hard and fast?  Slow and easy?  SaSi gets it.  You don't even have to tug it's ears to direct its head.

Bonus:  you can get a free bottle of massage oil if you purchase SaSi at Babeland now. (Break your SaSi in before using it as the warm-up act for your Quickie.)

Sex toy reviewer Ann Whidden calls SaSi "the best thing to happen to sex since tongues."  I like that line.  Who doesn't need a smarter tongue in her life?

If you want a "spontaneous" Quickie, slip into the bedroom or bathroom while s/he's putting the kids down or is minutes away in a cab--and use your SaSi to give yourself that first orgasm via cunnilingus or bring yourself to the edge, if that is your preference.

Now you are ready for your lover to drive it home--or give you that second big O.

The Bendover Cross

Yes, quickies do work for women too.

The Bendover is a classic quickie intercourse position.  She stands with feet apart.  If she's athletic, she bends forward and places her hands on the floor.  He enters from behind.  Most of us do the Bendover in a more comfortable position:  Standing but leaning forward with hands or forearms supported by a bed, table, chair or other hard surface while he enters from behind.

The Bendover Cross adaptation:  Preferably wearing stilettos because they look so hot-- assume your favorite Bendover position, but cross your ankles after he enters you.  The fit feels tighter and more exciting for him and stimulates your G spot and/or clitoris indirectly.  Flex your PC muscle in time with his thrusting to intensify the sensations. 

This tip comes from my forthcoming book THE NEW TANTRA:  Simple and Sexy.  I was on set for the photo shoot.  And the Bendover Cross looks really sexy.

Orgasm Tip:  Arouse yourself before the quickie with a few minutes of vibe play--and/or use a finger vibe (Babeland) during the quickie.