But, in keeping with my privacy policy, I can't show you his face or give you his name. Sigh.
Mister X is a professional in his late twenties, living and working in a major American city. He is everything most women (and a fair number of men :) want in a guy: smart, sexy, thoughtful, articulate and a true gentleman. And he reads SexyPrime!
Seven Questions With SexyPrime's First Boy Toy Of The Month
SUSAN: You are SexyPrime's very first Boy Toy of the Month. And you were not chosen on the basis of that fabulous body alone. You're a smart guy. Smart is sexy in men. Do you feel that's true in women too?
BoyToy: It’s quite an honor; someday maybe they will name an award after me. Yes, smart is sexy in women too. But there are different types of smarts, and when we are talking sexy, emotional intelligence is more important than pure IQ. Aspects
such as conversational ability, self awareness, awareness of the world
around them, ability to give and read non-verbal cues, and an
understanding of relationships are important for a woman to be sexy. Oh, and a deep understanding of super-string theory.
SUSAN: Super-string theory? Did I tell you I have a background in physics? What is the sexiest thing a woman can do--if you don't know her well or maybe not at all?
BoyToy: It’s typically not a single thing, but several things, and the timing of them. The
right type of eye-contact and concurrent smile, a soft subtle touch,
knowing when to turn aggressive, and the deadly whisper in the ear
(that might be the single sexiest thing)
SUSAN: What's the sexiest thing she can do after you've been to bed together many times?
BoyToy: Surprise me. Be creative, and try something new. Public displays of affection are often erotic.
SUSAN: How do you get women to give you what you want in bed?
BoyToy: I guess the standard line is to give them what they want first. And it is true to some extent. But there are two more important things. First, communicate some of what you want, but also leave some of it to be figured out, letting her use her intelligence. And most importantly, choose the right woman. It’s
great if what I want in bed is what she wants in bed, and if a man asks
the right questions and looks for the right things, sexual
compatibility is very likely. Not every woman is cut out to please a particular man; and experience counts a lot.
SUSAN: What is your best sex tip for other guys?
BoyToy: Does Starbucks post its brewing tips on the web? I guess, just be yourself, and don’t be afraid to take chances.
SUSAN: How would you describe your sex life now?
BoyToy: At
this moment I am not looking for a serious relationship, because I
recently got out of a long-term relationship, and because I travel a
lot for work. My sex life was good before I had that relationship, and it was better during the relationship, but it’s great now. I
was fortunate to have a few great women teachers early on, and while it
took me a while to understand what they taught me, I am enjoying sex
more now than ever before. I know more about what to look for in a woman, and am more comfortable in being open and direct.
SUSAN: What would you do for a woman who gives the perfect blow job--and comes just sucking your cock?
BoyToy: Well that is a huge turn on for me, so it would create a huge desire to please her. So I would do whatever she wants and that of course totally depends on her. But the woman who is into sucking my dick that much probably will not be satisfied just from me selflessly pleasing her. It
probably means there will be lots of pleasing her in different ways
(including good old fashion deep fucking), interwoven with many more
opportunities for her to give even better-than-perfect blow jobs.
SUSAN: Babes, he says he travels a lot. You might try hanging out at airports.
