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Michael—M, the AssMaster—says, “Cunnilingus has been my continuing obsession since I first read a compelling piece of cunnilingual erotica at the age of twelve.”
Who better to write SexyPrime’s Ultimate Cunnilingus Guide?
How to pleasure a woman from M—
As a Committed Cunnilinguist, I LOVE pussies. If you don’t love the pussy, how can you be good at providing oral sex?
I love the visual variety, the shapes, the aroma, the taste, and the texture. I love how they are as individual as faces, each with distinct personalities. More than a receptacle for my sexual desires, the pussy is the Gateway to the Goddess—and the single best evidence that there is a god. Treat it with reverence.
With that attitude, you won’t think of cunnilingus as foreplay—or, worse, the necessary “work” you do to get her wet and ready. Focus completely on what you are doing with your lips and tongue and fingers and toys. Pay attention to her reactions. While you are giving head, that is where your head should be.
Every Woman is Different, Every TIME is Different. No matter how successful your oral efforts were in the past, they won’t work every time for every woman. Be prepared to modify your approach based on her reactions. Let her body be your guide. I said BODY, not voice. Verbal instructions from her may be confusing and unhelpful, but the body is ground truth. Pay attention.
ULTIMATE CUNNILINGUS
- Slow Down! Many women need a lot of stimulation to reach orgasm.
- Less is More. Can you describe the best fellatio you ever received? It wasn’t given by a woman who could suck golf balls through a garden hose. The oral genius licked and teased, building up your anticipation. She may have used strong suction or the deep swallow at points, but she increased your arousal by degrees, employing not only her lips and tongue, but also hair, hands, face, nose, and eyes! Visual teasing through eye contact during fellatio is powerful.
Apply the same style that turned you inside out to pleasing her. Don’t go after her clitoris using your tongue like a belt sander. Lightly lick and tease along her labia, inner thighs, barely inside the vagina. If she is comfortable with this—and many women enjoy it—lick her perineum and anal area. Make her beg you to lick and suck her clitoris.
- Add Focused Clitoral Stimulation. When she wants an orgasm, she will want you to focus more intense stimulation on her clit. Experiment with different strokes to find what works for her. Some to try:
- Flick the tip of your tongue across the tip of her clitoris.
- Alternate running the tip up and down the sides with lightly flicking it across the sides of the glans.
- Put your lips around her clitoris and very lightly suck.
- Circle the tip of your tongue around her clitoris so that you barely touch it, making her beg for more.
- Place two fingers in a V around her clitoris and gently press down as you lick, suck and flick, using the strokes that work for her.
- Add Fingers and Toys. Use two fingers to stroke her G-spot while licking and sucking her clitoris. Or add a G-spot vibrator from Babeland.
- Add anal toys. Insert a vibrating butt plug (again from Babeland) into her well-lubed anus while continuing to lavish oral attention on her clitoris, labia and perineum.
Extra Tips—
Choose a position that allows you free use of your hands. Raise her hips with a pillow, or wedge pillow or position her with ass at the edge of the bed/sofa/ottoman/table. Or have her on top riding your face which also gives her more control.
Talk to her. Many women have had negative experiences with cunnilingus. Encourage her to tell you what she wants—and doesn’t want.
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Excellent advice! One technique which has had my lovers begging for more is to lick the entire vulva, bottom to top, from perineum to clitoris, very slowly with the flat of my tongue. Doing it slowly creates the anticipation that adds so much to the experience.
Posted by: Hardin Reddy | September 25, 2011 at 08:55 PM
In an anecdote along the lines of my suggestion to listen to her body, not her voice, a female friend who read this said:
"For me, there's only one thing.....gotta promise NOT to stop when I say when."
Michael aka "AssMaster"
Posted by: Michael AssMaster | September 27, 2011 at 08:36 PM