Hello, Sexyprime readers, Kimmie here again!
I remember babysitting in my 'tweens, being in someone else's house, slinking around while the parents were out and the kids were all in bed. It felt so deliciously naughty, poking through people's pantries (only those who didn't leave me snacks out on the counter) and going through their bookshelves. It was always slightly scary to think that maybe I hadn't put everything away the way I'd found it, or that I might not hear them drive up and they'd open the door on me while I was head-first in a cupboard.
I knew I'd never really do anything wrong, but it was the heady power of having the opportunity to do so that was so intoxicating. I knew I wouldn't go into the master bedroom, but just the fact that I could...!
I feel a little like that now, temporarily in charge of Susan's blog.
However, Susan is someone for whom I would have loved to have babysat, because she left the really good cookies out - I get to present the the winner of Sexyprime's Sexy Beast story contest! Definitely a treat.
Our winner, L.O. writes, "He is definitely not conventionally handsome but has become absolutely beautiful to me." By sharing her own wants and desires, L.O. has found the true beauty in another human being. That is the perfect thought to take us into the weekend. May we all share our beauty and find it in others!
On Susan's behalf, I would like to present the winner of Sexyprime's Sexy Beast story contest!
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My sexual personal best is now, in my 50s. One of the joys in my eyes of being over 50 is that I care much less what others think of me or my actions. I’m finding that younger people (20-40 year olds) are more gender and sex fluid. They don't seem to feel the need for boxes and labels and are less judgmental and more hedonistic; certainly more than I was at their age! There is a delightful freedom in discovering sexually after too many years of sexless marriage but...that’s another story...
Last fall I opened a profile on a social network that caters to those who approach sex differently than most of the world; something I had dabbled with in my 20s and decided to revisit.
I’ve never been one to lie about my age but the group of people listed on the site from my tiny country had an average age of 27! I knew I’d never meet anyone if I listed my real age. Instead I decided to list the age that most people guess when they meet me. Even at 42 my age was still far and away the oldest listed in that group.
A few months later I got a message from a man who appeared to live in my country. His stated his age as 8 years younger than my own (stated) age, which was 10 years younger than I actually was! Oh God...
We exchanged e-mails regarding our interests, which led to chatting online, and quickly progressed to speaking on the phone. When it became obvious that we would eventually meet in person, I told him that I had lied about my age. Without a pause he said he didn’t care, we’d just meet for coffee to see if there was any chemistry.
“Coffee” happened the next day. I noticed beautiful eyes and hands - the first two things I look at when meeting a man. He was manly, yes, but not handsome. We talked for about an hour. Then he reached out and stroked the back of my hand with the back of his finger.
The connection was instant. I knew then that we’d take this further.
What a lovely surprise this younger lover has been! I have a sexy beast 17 years younger who is much more experienced than I in the things I am curious about. We each have very high sex drives and each of us feels we have finally met our sexual match. He has a natural dominant grace and truly loves women. There is such an obvious underlying animal magnetism that I feel now and felt from the first time we had coffee. He is definitely not conventionally handsome but has become absolutely beautiful to me.
He’s mentioned to me a few times over these months that he is so glad I lied about my age. He never seems to tire of telling me how beautiful, sexy and desirable I am to him. I’ve told him that I feel I am finally where I belong...it just took me his entire life to find him, living on the next hill.
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