One of my favorite readers sent in this variation to THE BOYFRIEND JEANS MUTUAL HAND JOBs--turning it into THE BOYFRIEND JEANS MUTUAL HANDS JOBS, The Electric Quickie Version. He is another winner in the DOING IT DRESSED--Sex Wardrobe Basics Book Give-Away.
“My wife and I love this technique and use it at least once a week. We have high-pressure jobs and two kids—and our schedule board in the kitchen looks like the domestic version of the Boston marathon. But we have high sex drives and don’t want to deny ourselves pleasure just because we are too tired for intercourse.
“Masturbation is good; mutual masturbation is good—but masturbating each other simultaneously is the most intimate and satisfying way of doing it.
“Before starting the game—which I usually lost until we added the vibes—
"She puts a vibrating cock ring around the base of my penis."
I suggest the Shag Factory Swing Ring, which will also give her clitoral stimulation when you wear it during intercourse. Like all cock rings, it increases hardness and sensitivity. The added wicked little stimulation: A light swinging weight taps the perineum in time with his hand strokes (or intercourse thrusting.)
"With my cock ring in place, I put a finger vibe on my first or middle finger. I'm adding vibration to the press/release motion--and it drives her crazy."
I suggest Shag Factory's Finger Vibe. This small softly textured vibe has three speeds. So you can tease her by turning it back and forth from low to high and higher. And she will love the feel of its tickling textured skin.
Thank you, JJ. I tried this variation with my lover--and we loved it.
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