"No one dates. You text where you are or where you're going and people meet you there. I have a gaggle of men--three or four or five or six at all times. I am not having sex with all of them, but they are men to be with," a 26 year-old "white girl working in PR."
"I date. Sometimes I just hook up. My wife doesn't know, of course," a 43 year-old married white guy.
"I don't plan formal dates, but i will call a woman when I see I can get away early and invite her for drinks or dinner. I am generous, for example, I like having sex in nice hotels," a 39 year-old black male corporate executive.
"Yes, I date and I fear I will keep dating and will date longer than humans were ever meant to date," a "very popular forty-something divorced white woman."
"Sister, let me tell you a black man's idea of a date: You waiting for him at your place with a home-cooked meal and him showing up in time to watch the game on TV while he eats it, then doing you after," a "black working woman, baby mama by choice, never married" in her thirties.
I am tabulating the results of SexyPrime's Dating/Mating/Hooking-Up Survey and will publish the results later this week. A few teasers:
- 20% of respondents under thirty have never dated--though many are living together or married.
- Old white guys have adapted to hook-up culture. I expect some indignant responses to the 55-year-old (and exceptionally well-endowed) man who only has sex with young Asian women. They come to his apartment. He photographs them nude and sometimes in sexual poses. (Yes, he "shared" the photos with me, including shots of a 19 year-old Korean American girl sucking his endowment.)
- 75% of admitted cougars not only date but do NOT pay for the dates. (Listen up, young women: Guys your age do date.)
The responses raise some new questions, like:
Whatever happened to romance?
Is seduction truly the lost art?
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