I am organizing SexyPrime so that each day will be its own category. It is more fun than organizing closets. Here is the new plan.
Friday—Cougar Chronicles, (including excerpts from Dick-Matized, An Erotic Memoir)
Saturday/Sunday--Weekend Sex Tips
And now the first in a series of excerpts from my erotic memoir in progress. Thanks to Chip Rowe, my friend the Playboy Adviser, for editing down the excerpts.
Dick-Matized: An Erotic Memoir
The phrase made famous by director Spike Lee is: She’s gotta’ have it.
Not: She’s gotta’ have him.
Some women want dick.
Maybe any woman in the right mood at the right time wants dick. Even lesbian women crave penetration. Only cock—or the reasonable facsimile thereof—satisfies that deep need. (It’s not by accident that lesbians have created the best sex toy shops, Babeland and Good Vibrations.) Women want a good, hard erection. The Big Bamboo. European women shamelessly pay for it down in the islands. American women pay with shame.
Some women really, really want it. They burn with desire for penetration, vaginally, orally, anally. They want it.
But do they want you?
Sometimes the man is just the life support system for the cock—and the woman is wholly involved with it, not him.
Even more occasionally, the woman may have a particular shade of cock in mind, for example, a white woman, a cock shaded black.
Why is that so much more shocking than any man who fixates on a blonde? Or a younger woman? Or a thin woman with big breasts? Or a luscious booty? You didn’t know that a woman can sexually objectify a man? Or fetish-ize his dick?
Think on all this.
NEXT FRIDAY: MEETING THE BIG D
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