What’s the down-and-dirtiest sex you ever had—with whom and where?
I’m willing to bet you broke a taboo (yours or society’s) in the experience. Illicit sex is the down-and-dirtiest. Why else would sex advisors tell married couples to pretend to pick each other up in a bar?
I had an interesting discussion on this subject with a stranger on a plane. Sometimes I tell strangers I write about sex and sometimes I don’t. It doesn’t matter. They tell me about their sex lives.
The man, who looked forty-ish, said that he and his wife are enjoying better sex since he started traveling two weeks out of the month. “We really want each other when I get home.” His best friend, on the other hand, recently returned from a business trip early and found his wife in bed with another man.
“In our bed,” the friend said. “I will never get that image out of my mind. I could forgive an affair, but not in my own bed. He was lying on my side of the bed when I walked in the room.”
His soon-to-be ex-wife violated his ultimate sex taboo by cuckolding him in his own bed. I’m with him. I might sleep with my second cousin, twice removed, or have sex with another woman’s husband, but not in her bed.
What is the sex taboo you won’t violate—or relish having violated—or regret having violated?
I eagerly anticipate hearing from my readers in these surveys. What an open and honest, smart, sexy and witty group SexyPrime readers are. Have I told you lately that I love you?
THE TABOO SEX SURVEY
Please tell me your age, race, relationship status—and answer the questions! Juicy stories appreciated/anticipated.
What sexual acts are taboo?
Anal intercourse? Golden showers? Bondage? Spanking? BDSM? Kissing a prostitute? Paying for sex? Other?
How often do you engage in any of these taboo behaviors?
Is interracial sex taboo?
Boss or subordinate?
Sex with your cousin? Brother’s wife? Best friend’s girlfriend? Son’s best friend?
A threesome? Group sex?
Sex with a much younger or older partner?
Have you violated your own partner taboos—and with whom?
Is public sex taboo? Which places are most taboo?
Is doing it at your parents’ house taboo?
In a friend’s bed? Your marriage bed with someone else? Your kid’s bed?
Have you violated any of these taboos?
The Big Questions
Is taboo sex hotter?
What taboo won’t you violate?
Or relish—or regret having violated?
Do you keep pushing the taboo envelope?
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