Several people responded to yesterday's post by emailing: How do I administer a proper spanking?
Excellent question. Obviously you want to arouse your partner, not turn her off by. An erotic spanking is not a Puritanical punishment.
First, pay attention. Have you discussed spanking? Has she (or he...boys like to be spanked sometimes too) indicated a desire to be spanked? Spin that into an erotic discussion.
Warm up. Lightly squeeze the flesh of each buttock together in your hand. Gently slap a few times to bring the blood to the surface and minimize bruising.
Use a slightly cupped hand position. That makes a nice sound without doing a lot of damage.
One cheek at a time. Don't come down hard on the center of her ass. Spank each cheek in turn, landing your blows on the fleshiest part of the buttocks.
After a few strokes, stop and rub the rosy flesh.
Lastly, pay attention again. Is she moaning or screaming in pain? Her responses must guide your hand--or the whole scene will dissolve into tears and acrimony.
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