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My pal Steve Otero, Anton's right-hand man at Sexy Spirits, called this morning to tell me that my second podcast with Dr. Patti Taylor [link in post below] reminded him of a great line from a porn film, "None So Deep" directed by the late Gerard Diamiano of "Deep Throat" fame. The hero explains his search for a woman he once had by saying:
"She made love to my cock, not to me--to my cock."
And he had to find her again!
That's what being dick-matized is all about. You love the dick, not necessarily the man; and you love that dick as unique and special. You make love to that dick. It is the fine art of cock worship made more intensely personal.
Yes, of course, you want to love that guy, all of him, sometimes, maybe often. But trust me on this: Make love to his cock alone and the man, its life support system, will love you for that. Develop a passionate relationship with his significant other part--and you will both be the happier for it. (There is no better way of reducing the stress and tension of daily life than taking a cock into your mouth and sucking. It's the big girl's pacifier.)
First: Get down on your knees, grasp that big boy and look at it.
Have you ever really done that? A cock is a beautiful thing-- its thick spongy head rising elegantly above the ridge of the corona, like a crown; its noble shaft, thick and hard, veined like marble; its skin like the finest silk you ever touched. Each one is a different work of art. Some men, for example, have a little more loose skin, the frenulum, on the underside of the shaft than others do.
Second: Pay close attention to how the cock responds as you lick and suck and stroke.
The obvious mouth moves--sucking the head, flicking your tongue across the corona--always work. But that cock has its special little places. Find them. One of my all time favorite dicks had this special place on the underside of the shaft, about a third of the way down. I could make it come by sucking there.
Three: If you are squeamish about tasting its secretions, get over that now.
Babe, if you like the way your man smells, you cannot dislike the way his dick smells. The chemistry is right. Practice letting him come in your mouth by first allowing the semen to dribble out of the corners of your mouth as you breath through your nose. Work your way up to swallowing, making sure that you position yourself so that he shoots down your throat--and you won't taste/smell the ejaculate.
Once you get into that cock, however, you will love the taste and smell of it.
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I just listened to your Expanded Lovemaking Podcast with Dr. Patty Taylor about making love to a man's cock, and I just had to subscribe to your blog. I'm a happily married man to a wonderful woman. Honestly, my wife and I are both very sexual - we love to make love, fuck, whatever you wonna call it.
My wife and I love giving each other oral sex (I absolutely love making her squirm with pleasure when I use my tongue to speedbag her clit!). I've read and bought tons of books on sex, sexual pleasure, healing, etc. I just finished reading Ian Kerner's "She Comes First," and I highly recommend it.
You're absolutely right that if a woman can make a man come by giving him oral sex, he will forever be like puddy in her hands. A woman who's got game like that is like a diamond in the ruff: A KEEPER!!!
I'll be e-mailing you regularly from now on.
Cheers!
Posted by: Dutch | February 06, 2009 at 11:41 AM
Thank you so much! I am delighted to have you as a reader.
Isn't Dr. Patti great? She does such a good job with her podcasts.
And I too am a fan of Ian Kerner's. You and you wife must read He Comes Next, the follow-up book. I met Ian at an industry event last year and found him as witty and charming as his books had led me to believe he would be.
I look forward to your comments,
S
Posted by: Susan Crain Bakos | February 13, 2009 at 10:11 PM