I have a theory that women who come vaginally may have well hidden (or "innie") clits.
Why? Every clit has a complex web of nerve endings extending into the vagina. It seems reasonable to me that a hidden clit is more likely to have deeper nerve endings than a proudly protruding "outie"--and that these nerves are stimulated during intercourse. I can't find any research on the subject so I'm doing my own. (I was inspired by my own clit, an "innie"--and, yes, I do come during intercourse alone.)
My first conversation with a woman on the subject, however, has not advanced my theory.
B, 32, says, "I have a hard time reaching orgasm; and I don't come from vaginal stimulation alone. But I do have a hidden clit. You really have to look hard to find it."
I need to hear from more women, a lot of women. Tell me about your clit--and whether or not you come from vaginal stimulation alone or always need clitoral stimulation. We could make sex history together.


I'm both ways. I can come vaginally with a large penis and someone who knows how to work it, but a couple of knowing, practiced fingers can be even more intense. My clit gets overly sensitive with too much manual stimulation and starts to hurt, but I can come vaginally for an hour. Probably longer, but I've always taken pity on him...
Posted by: kaykay | February 26, 2009 at 07:35 AM