Men like to think that they "give" us orgasms, but they rarely do. (We claim our own.) Women, on the other hand, can effectively influence male orgasm.
The trajectory of male arousal to orgasm is more straightforward than ours but it's a line that we can shorten or lengthen for them if we have a strong PC muscle and know what we're doing. We can also intensify his orgasm in easy ways.
Make a dramatic pause just as he is about to come. If he's on top, grab his buttocks at the moment of orgasm, use your PC to pull him in deeper--and the pinch or bite his nipple at the moment of his orgasm. Make eye contact with him as you're doing it.
You can be in charge, Babe, no matter who is on top.
Don't forget to qualify for the give-away of two copies of The Sex Bible for Women by sending your answer to one of the questions: What was your best orgasm? or What is your biggest sex secret? by July 4!
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