I had a lovely chat with Jamie Lynn adult video star and the model in THE ORGASM BIBLE where she has never looked more beautiful, sexy and appealing. (One of my guy pals says that "nations would go to war over her ass.")
How does she put herself into the mood for a shoot or a film?
"I try to feel as sexy as I can before I get there," she says. "Music helps put me into the mood."
Her best sex advice for women?
"Be responsible for creating your own desire. Don't expect your partner to make you feel sexy. Do what you need to do to create an erotic mood for yourself. Candles, music, fragrance, fantasy--whatever works for you.
"I like to be in control. And you have to know yourself and how your sexuality works to be in control of your sex life. Research your own body!"
She's right about that. Women, especially young women, always ask: What can I do to drive him wild in bed? And they complain: He isn't doing enough to drive me wild in bed.
Take Jamie's advice. Start with you. What turns you on? What can you do (or show him) to drive yourself wild in bed? Your excitement will fuel his.
I asked her what she found surprising or perplexing about working in the adult field--and she said: "That men can be turned on by something as simple as the way I dangle my foot."
She is "always respectful of myself" in her work and doesn't agree to do films that would make her feel disrespected. Sometimes she gets ideas about the way to pose her body or what to say to the camera based on feedback from her male fans.
"I get to peek inside the brain of those guys who sit around all day fantasizing about sex," she says, laughing.
But she doesn't take her work home with her--or view herself as a "porn star" or "celebrity."
When she's not working, Jamie has a boyfriend and a "normal" California life--walks on the beach, barbecues, movies, camping and trips to the mall in her jeans, sneakers and hoodies. And she writes poetry. I've asked her to send me a poem and I hope she'll let me post it on the blog for you.
Jamie Lynn is an intelligent and charming young woman (and, of course, hot). I am so happy with her photos in THE ORGASM BIBLE. Thank you, Jamie, for so eloquently illustrating my book.
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