What is SexyPrime?

Sexy Prime is a mathematical term for a set of prime numbers separated by six--for example 5 and 11, 11 and 17 and so forth.  ("Sex", of course, is the Latin word for six.)

I am good at math and research-oriented so the term appeals.  It says to me:  Numbers are sexy.  And I believe that is true for women too.  Whatever your "number", you are in your Sexy Prime. 

Women in their 20s are often told that their sex drive will "peak" in their thirties--when they can finally expect to have orgasms easily.  Oh, ha!  Young women can learn how to orgasm easily--and as often as they want.  In every area of life, including sexuality, young women can teach the rest of us a trick or two on any given day.

Women over 40--and especially over 50 or 60--are told that they are past their prime.  Most of the sex advice written for post-menopausal women dwells on the negatives:  lack of vaginal lubrication and the other usual desire-killing culprits.  Well, Babes, you can purchase lubrication and you are certainly NOT past it.  While recognizing the realities of changing bodies and psyches, we don't need to view these changes as limiting our sexual expression.  Sometimes they enhance it.

At SexyPrime, young women won't snicker at the idea of their Mamas having sex and older women won't put the girls down by saying "they don't know what they're doing in bed."  We support, celebrate and empower one another here.  Whether you are a heterosexual wife who has never strayed or a woman who has sampled from the banquet of sexual lifestyles, you belong here.  This is your home base.

Let's have an ongoing dialogue among women who celebrate the incredible and beautiful diversity of female sexuality.

Comments

[plusstyle]

Love the blog title - sexy and sophiscated.

[Elizabeth]

I am 25, and my “fiance” has admitted to having a porn addiction, has said he needed it to be more hardcore as he got older and I have found videos of guys shoving brooms and nerf footballs into women’s vaginas. I think it can be a bigger problem than a lot of women realize. It is like a secret world that he separates from me, and he doesn’t seem sexually attracted to me in the slightest, or anyone for that matter. He prefers porn and anal (I didn’t know this until 2 years into our relationship). I told him from the very beginning I would never do that and he tried “the slip” once (not a slip so much as trying to ram it in) and I punched him in the face. I know that sounds harsh and I have never hit anyone before but I felt so violated, disrespected, and to be honest, I felt like he raped me. It was very painful and I am glad I reacted the way I did. Is it a violation? Do all men expect a woman to now-and-then accept anal penetration? The biggest question is, if that is what he really wants in bed, do I suck it up and take it to keep us together or move on and let our 4 year relationship kick the bucket?